Hobby of Sharing Life Experience
We are having different experiences in various phases of life, sharing of few with some persons will be benefited to both i.e to you and the people to whom you share.
Read it and share your life experiences & enjoy life.
Hobby of Sharing Life Experience
Hello……My World….I have my first article on my recently developed hobby of Sharing experience of my own-life.
In our life are passing through different phases viz. Our Born, KG schools, high schools, college / universities studies, drop outs, first crush & yes…even second or subsequent crushes, friendship, sex, love-ship, relationships with parents, wife, kids other relatives or with our clients and associates etc. In all those phases we get lots and lots of experiences and still life goes on and again having similar experience/s. If this experience we get once or again and if it’s our success experience then we feel it’s good, but if this experience is bad we get frustrated and depressed. Well…..in both of the above experience whether good or bad, we need to think about them both. Ahaa…not just think we should judge it from different point of view.
Bad experience is of course a matter of think or analyse because we need to overcome the particular problem rather not thinking and seat idle will be total waste of energy and time. Energy because we disturbs other things associated with our routine life because of such bad experience like activities of going office and loose daily targets, talk with wife and be angry on her or even getting ill on our health etc. Time because we are not thinking on it for the object of getting its solution with what happened to us. We have to think correctly to solve the matter on time of immediate after problem because we have a fresh memory of that problem or experience.
Even Good Experience makes time to analyse on us…why? Getting success on shortcut method or unethically may disturbs the whole game in future. Many examples are in sports persons used shortcut way to win the game by taking anti-human drugs and as a result they have to return back their winning titles and become shameful to society.
Now let’s come to the point of sharing…why sharing? Its simple….to get solution. Solution of yours and of others. Sharing of experience can be to the person you associate a lot (say your parents or well-wisher or wife or best friend), or your senior or even sometimes to large number of people. How to share is one of the questions. Every individual has his own style of sharing experience. Sharing of experience with a view to getting solution may different from only to share.
Developing a hobby of sharing has many advantages like:
1. It makes us start thinking about our self.
2. Identifying the inner problem only makes the solution because most of don’t know even what the hell is the problem and problem is so easy to solve out only on thinking on it.
3. Sharing with your close associates or seniors will solve your problem too. Many times we don’t discuss the problem with them due to many reasons like what that person will think about me? He will think that how loser I am? Or He can’t solve my problem as he is too too big persona etc. Don’t hesitate to share, it costs nothing but only gain.
4. Sharing of good experience may results in getting benefit of experiences of others too. How? To whom you share may as a counter sharing his similar kind of experience and you will get to know that this is inspirational plus helping to getting the success in a better way.
5. Sharing experiences whether good or bad, always good for others as they will get to know their solution through you. In this round world we may have similar kind of problems so we can easily co-relate with it.
6. “Success comes from Experience and Experience comes from Bad Experiences.” – Awesome line said by Motivational Speaker Sandip Maheshwari (Founder of ImagesBazar.com) expresses the Experience is the success path through many bad experiences. But it can come only if we think about our problem / experience and make a favourable result out of it.
7. Success experience is may good experience and sharing of good experience with people will make people start giving respect on you and recognise you as a successful person. This will boost up your morale a lot and gives you tremendous confidence.
It is the result of many peoples sharing experiences, life of our or others are changed. For example, as we know that drinking and drive may cause an accident. We may not realize it if we don’t met with an accident. We can realize it if our friend met with an accident with drinking liquor and was seriously injured, makes it life hell for many months, years or even life. Sharing good experience may results into betterment like in this example, drink and drive with high speed is good experience of fun and you share with friends. In that one of the friends may tell his experience of losing his leg permanently on having same experience as you have. He is now on fake leg. The other friend’s sharing will wake you up..And say you inside that it was good experience temporarily but might have met with the experience of losing a leg like him….so from now I will drive carefully without drinking liquor.
Many of our choose ideals in life. Why? Because we like his life experiences. And further dealing in all situations on the basis of his experiences. His life experiences gives us inspiration to live our life as he did or even in better way. So, sharing may inspire others to do different.
So, please share your life experiences to the world and change it to the better world you live.
Dwarkesh K. Diwan 