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08.05.16
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Well, it happens in Communications! – 3 “Say ‘No’ “

Many times you have to accept such thing which you don’t like and have to say ‘Yes’. Then you tolerate such thing till the end.

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If you can’t say ‘No’ to the things or people then you will be in a big trouble in future. There are many negative results for not saying ‘No’:

1. You will bogged down under pressure of unwanted things

2. You will be slave for that time being for that thing or people and if it continuous then forever

3. You create a negative image in your own eyes which decrease your morale

4. You become less or zero confident to do something new

5. You will be under jail having wall all around you

But if you say ‘No’, then:

1. You will win

2. Sense of achievement of doing right thing to yourself

3. You feel yourself as you are not a slave i.e. you are only the King of your self and nobody can control you

4. You will save your future

5. Saving of your time

6. Self respect will increase and will start loving yourself

Some people says that they can’t say No as they want to maintain a relation but the fact is if you don’t like something and you say frankly ‘No’ to that person will save a relation better than accepting unwanted things which will make loss to both in future.

Well, is that easy to say ‘No’?
Hmm.. yes…it’s easy..just pronounce the simple word ‘No’. Reasons may be true or false or no reason for that ‘No’. After saying you have to be formed in it.

08.04.16
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Well, It happens in Communications! -2 ‘Attitude’

Your attitude says everything to other one. The way you say it the day you react describe your mood.

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Attitude is one of the way to communicate stating your own style. Attitude talk is a talk what you do irrespective of your mood.

Attitude indicate your approach as whether you are positive interests or not. Your success of convince depends mostly on your way to communicate. And if your way or attitude is correct then you will win.

All around people shows different attitude in you and other people. I observed many people who talks so loudly and confidently on some matter that know…that’s how they convince the other who has less or no knowledge on some matter. Some convince other by the power that they have like you have to convince on some talks from whome you deserve something and the other knows you can only get from him.

Some has an attitude in communication of ‘never back down’. This is one which I like now a days..which tells not to convince from anyone. This thing actually inside says “I am the best” which is good in some situation against a person who wrongly trying to convince you. It’s bad too sometimes as you may miss the important thing you need to apply, which the other person trying to convince you.

From my point of view coreect attitude comes from your:
1. Achievement
2. Knowledge
3. Experience
4. Encouragement

It’s great to have an attitude in communication as it gives life to it.

08.03.16
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Well, It happens in communications! -1 ‘Importance of communications’

Communication is really plays a vital role in our life. We communicate in office for some intense, people understand with their intence. I should rather say as people understand from their perspective. Rarely or lessly happens to be the exact same thought you communicate. It may that you think you communicated well but the other person will not get the exact same meaning you wanted to give. Probably I am saying whatever right now will be read by the reader from their perspective or their intence or their importance.

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Factors related to both sender of message and receiver of message plays a big role.

BUT ultimately the person,  who can convince the other, will win.

I learned something which I want to share that the more you communicate with different different people you will be better communicator day by day. It’s not magic that happens in the spot you meet with them but it will work after you lose in communications in some cases and in some cases you will win.

Even a well knowledgable person become fail against dumb person as he can’t convince that person with his communication.

Experience of each communications should be judged by yourself daily. Believe it or not.. you have to communicate correctly.

While improving youself in communications, you will get fun in that.

08.08.13
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Companies Bill passed in Rajya Sabha today on 8-8-2013

Companies Bill passed in Rajya Sabha today on 8-8-2013

Also see the view of Piyush Goyal, Minister BJP of Maharastra says the same  (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VnYBP6eMZKc) as I conclude on my blog on CSR (i.e. onhttps://dwarkeshkdiwan.wordpress.com/2013/07/12/corporate-social-responsibility-csr-mandatory-provision-in-companies-bill-2012/) that it should be voluntarily.